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Erotomania

/ɪˌrɒtəˈmeɪniə/noun

The fixed delusion that another person, often a stranger of higher standing, is secretly in love with you.

The Greek roots

ἔρως
érōs
sexual love, desire
+
μανία
manía
madness, frenzy

Literally: love madness

The story of the word

English had erotomania by the seventeenth century for lovesickness serious enough to count as an illness. The modern sense is narrower and stranger, and it belongs to Gaëtan de Clérambault, who set out the pattern in 1921 from a patient convinced that George V was signalling to her through the curtains of Buckingham Palace. The delusion is about being loved, not about loving, which is what separates it from ordinary obsession.

How it travelled
Ancient Greek → scientific coinage → English
First recorded
17th century

Same family

erotickleptomaniamegalomaniamaniac

In a sentence

The stalking charge rested on an erotomania that had run for six years.

Built on the same root

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